You've chosen the perfect wedding garter—perhaps a delicate lace design with a hint of something blue—and now you're wondering: which leg does it actually go on?
It's a question we hear all the time from brides, and the good news is there's no wrong answer. Unlike your engagement ring, which tradition dictates should sit on your left hand, wedding garters have no such rule. Originally designed to keep stockings in place on both legs, a garter can be worn on whichever leg feels most comfortable and natural to you.
In this guide, we'll walk you through everything you need to know about wearing your wedding garter—from which leg to choose and where to position it, to practical tips for all-day comfort. Whether you're planning a garter toss or simply wearing it as a beautiful bridal tradition, we've got you covered.
Key Facts: Wedding Garter Placement
- Which leg: Either leg—there is no traditional rule
- Best position: Just above the knee (most comfortable)
- For garter toss: Right leg is most common (easier access for most people)
- When to put it on: After your dress, before your shoes
- How tight: Snug but not restrictive—you'll wear it all day
Which Leg Should Your Wedding Garter Go On?
The simple answer is: whichever leg you prefer. There is no traditional or correct leg for wearing a wedding garter. Historically, garters were purely functional items worn on both legs to hold up stockings before the invention of elastic. The romantic, decorative wedding garter we know today is a relatively modern tradition, and it carries no rules about left versus right.
That said, many brides find it helpful to consider a few practical factors when making their choice. If you're planning a garter toss, you might prefer your right leg—most grooms find it easier to reach the right side, and it tends to photograph better during the moment. If you're not doing a toss and simply wearing your garter as a personal keepsake, go with whichever leg feels more natural.
Some brides like to wear their garter on their left leg to mirror the tradition of wearing wedding rings on the left hand, creating a sense of symmetry. Others choose based on which leg they'll be standing on during photographs or which side their dress has a slit. There's no right or wrong—it's entirely your choice.
"I always tell brides to try their garter on both legs during a dress fitting. You'll quickly discover which side feels more natural—and that's the one to go with. Comfort trumps tradition every time, especially when you're wearing it for eight hours or more."
— Sarah, Founder of Britten
Where to Position Your Wedding Garter
Position is far more important than which leg you choose. We always recommend wearing your garter just above your knee—typically 2-3 inches above the kneecap. This is the most comfortable spot for several reasons.
First, the area just above your knee is the narrowest part of your thigh, which means your garter will stay in place without needing to be uncomfortably tight. Second, this position keeps the garter away from areas where your thighs might rub together during walking or dancing, reducing irritation throughout the day.
Avoid wearing your garter too high on your thigh. While it might look elegant in photographs, a higher position can become uncomfortable as the day progresses, particularly during your first dance or when sitting for your wedding breakfast. The garter may also slip down if worn too high, as the thigh naturally tapers outward.
Finding Your Perfect Position
During your final dress fitting, take a few minutes to try your garter in different positions. Walk around, sit down, and even do a few dance moves if you can. You'll quickly find the sweet spot where your garter stays put without pinching or sliding. Mark the position mentally—or even with a small piece of tape on your skin—so you can recreate it on your wedding morning.
Garter Comfort Tips for Your Wedding Day
Your wedding garter should feel like a special secret, not a source of discomfort. Here are our top tips for ensuring your garter stays comfortable from morning preparations through to the last dance.
Choose the right size. Our garters are designed to stretch comfortably, but sizing still matters. If you're between sizes, we generally recommend sizing up—a garter that's slightly loose is far more comfortable than one that's too tight. You can always add a small safety pin to secure it if needed.
Consider your dress fabric. If your wedding dress is made from a slippery fabric like satin or silk, your garter may be more prone to sliding. In this case, wearing it slightly higher than usual (but still above the knee) can help, as can choosing a garter with a silicone grip strip.
Think about your activities. If you're planning an energetic first dance or lots of dancing at your reception, comfort becomes even more important. A lightweight tulle or silk garter will feel more breathable than a heavily embellished design. Our tulle garters are particularly popular with brides who want something delicate and barely-there.
Break it in beforehand. Just as you might wear your wedding shoes around the house before the big day, consider wearing your garter for an hour or two while getting ready at home. This helps the elastic settle and lets you identify any potential comfort issues before your wedding morning.
The Garter Toss: Traditions and Tips
The garter toss is a playful wedding tradition where the groom removes the bride's garter and tosses it to unmarried male guests—similar to the bouquet toss. While not every couple chooses to include this tradition, it remains popular at many celebrations.
If you're planning a garter toss, there are a few things to consider. Many brides wear two garters: one decorative "keepsake" garter that stays with them, and a simpler "toss" garter that's thrown to guests. This way, you don't have to part with a beautiful handcrafted piece that holds sentimental value.
For the toss itself, wearing your garter on your right leg is most practical. This position is easier for most grooms to access (assuming they're reaching from your right side), and it tends to look more natural in photographs. However, if your dress has a slit on the left side, you might prefer that leg for easier access.
"Many of our brides order a matching set—one exquisite garter to keep as an heirloom, perhaps to pass down to a daughter one day, and a simpler version for the toss. It's a lovely way to participate in the tradition whilst keeping something truly special for yourself."
— Sarah, Founder of Britten
Styling Your Garter with Your Bridal Look
Your wedding garter is one of the few accessories that's just for you—a hidden detail that adds to the magic of your bridal ensemble. Here's how to choose a garter that complements your overall look.
Consider your colour palette. If your wedding veil and dress are pure white, a white garter will create a cohesive look. For ivory or champagne gowns, our ivory and off-white options blend beautifully. Many brides also use their garter as their "something blue," choosing a design with blue crystals, ribbon, or embroidery.
Match your materials. A lace garter pairs beautifully with a lace wedding dress, creating a sense of continuity in your bridal look. Similarly, if your dress features delicate beading or pearls, a garter with similar details creates a thoughtful connection. Our French lace garters are particularly popular with brides wearing vintage-inspired or romantic gowns.
Don't forget your jewellery. If you're wearing pearl bridal earrings or a crystal necklace, choosing a garter with complementary details ties your look together—even if no one else will see the connection. It's these thoughtful touches that make your bridal ensemble feel truly complete.
When to Put Your Garter On
Timing matters when it comes to your wedding garter. We recommend putting it on after your dress but before your shoes. This sequence works best for several reasons.
Putting your garter on before your dress risks it getting caught or dislodged as you step into your gown. Once your dress is on and fastened, you can reach underneath to slide your garter into position without disturbing your carefully arranged skirts.
Do this before your shoes because bending down becomes significantly harder once you're in heels. If you have a particularly full skirt or train, you might ask a bridesmaid or your mum to help position your garter while you hold up the fabric.
Allow an extra five minutes in your getting-ready timeline for this moment. It's a lovely opportunity for a quiet, intimate photo—just you adjusting this hidden detail before the day begins in earnest.
Caring for Your Wedding Garter
After your wedding day, your garter becomes a cherished keepsake. With proper care, it can be preserved for decades—perhaps to be worn by a daughter or granddaughter one day.
If your garter needs cleaning, hand wash it gently in cool water with a mild detergent. Avoid wringing or twisting; instead, press out excess water with a clean towel and lay flat to dry. Never use a tumble dryer, as heat can damage delicate lace and elastic.
For long-term storage, wrap your garter in acid-free tissue paper and store it in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight. Many brides keep theirs in a special keepsake box alongside other wedding mementos, or displayed in a shadow box as part of their home décor.
Frequently Asked Questions
Is there a traditional leg for wearing a wedding garter?
No, there is no traditional or correct leg for wearing a wedding garter. Unlike engagement rings, which are traditionally worn on the left hand, garters have no such convention. You can wear your garter on whichever leg feels most comfortable and natural to you.
How high should I wear my wedding garter?
We recommend positioning your garter just above your knee—approximately 2-3 inches above the kneecap. This is the most comfortable position as it's the narrowest part of your thigh and won't rub against your other leg during walking or dancing.
Which leg is best for the garter toss?
If you're planning a garter toss, the right leg is most commonly chosen as it's typically easier for the groom to access. However, if your dress has a slit on the left side, that leg might be more practical. Choose whichever works best for your dress and comfort.
Should I wear one garter or two?
Many brides who are doing a garter toss choose to wear two garters: a beautiful "keepsake" garter to keep, and a simpler "toss" garter for throwing. This way, you can participate in the tradition whilst preserving a special handcrafted piece as an heirloom.
When should I put my wedding garter on?
Put your garter on after your dress is fastened but before your shoes. This sequence prevents the garter from being displaced while stepping into your gown, and allows you to bend down easily before you're in heels.
Finding Your Perfect Wedding Garter
Choosing which leg to wear your wedding garter on is entirely personal—there's no tradition to follow, no rule to obey. What matters most is that your garter feels comfortable and special, a beautiful hidden detail that adds to the magic of your wedding day.
Whether you choose your left leg, your right, position it high or low, the most important thing is that it feels right to you. Take time during your dress fittings to experiment with placement, and don't be afraid to adjust throughout the day if needed.
We'd love to help you find the perfect garter for your wedding day. Explore our collection of handcrafted wedding garters, each made with care in our Bath studio. From delicate French lace to romantic tulle designs, there's something for every bride—and every leg.
